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Co-Parenting and Post-Divorce Parenting

Even though things have not worked out with your spouse, if you have children together, it’s important to think through how you will parent them post-divorce.  I know as a parent… CONTINUE

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  • Kind and thoughtful in the midst of turmoil. I highly recommend Neil and his Law firm to anyone needing an expert in family law. Any divorce is always nerve wracking and Neil was helpful and knowledgeable in all aspects of family law. He took the time to explain the process of child custody and made sure I felt comfortable with everything. He is a tremendously talented divorce attorney who genuinely cares about his client’s best interests.

  • Best family law attorney in town. Neil is great! He’s been my family law attorney now for almost a decade. I know his strengths to be the law and his reputation as a top attorney. Additionally, he also tells you what you need to know so you can make informed decisions. I many not have always liked what he told me, but his honesty saved me thousands and a ton of stress. Ultimately, I feel like anyone else that would have handled my case would have cost me twice as much and done half the job. In the end, I’m a dad who now has 80/20 Visitation, kept the family home, and has an order in place that has brought sanity back into my life.

  • Unmatched integrity. I honestly didn’t know there were attorneys like Neil Holmes out there. His first concern was about me and learning what ends I hoped to accomplish, even if it was reconciliation (which means no case or fees paid to him). At each step of the process, he not only kept me informed but shared various options, always pointing out which was the most cost-efficient. There were many tasks I was able to accomplish on my own (that I know other attorneys would do and charge for). He also was straightforward about disappointing news and always explained the legality behind it. His integrity is unmatched. If you’re looking for an experienced attorney who is intelligent, strategic, focused and compassionate, I would highly recommend Neil.

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  • Neil is a professional and also has that personal touch. I wholeheartedly recommend Neil Holmes and Divorce for Men Only if you are going through any of the very emotionally taxing events such as a divorce, are dealing with child custody or support issues. It’s hard enough to go through these things, so to know that the attorney you hired has your best interest in mind, is supportive and knowledgeable, and also has years of experience, makes the process that much better. Thank you Neil and the whole Divorce for Men team!

  • Thanks for your help during difficult times!! Neil is a great, sensitive attorney with excellent ethics and moral values. With his great knowledge he brings a realistic approach to any situation and develops the case based on facts. I strongly recommended Neil!!

    Juan C. – Walnut Creek